We
have recently heard the passing of a very famous singer recently. While we all feel deeply sad for her and her
family, we cannot help but think; what she could have been if she had not abuse
of illegal substances? Let’s be clear, I do not condemn the artist, it’s
her own choices that led her to where she is at, I am just asking a question
about the rationality between groupthink (her lifestyle did not change her aptitude)
and the fact that she was once extremely talented. I received a lot of heat
from acquaintances for raising such questions.
There
is a countless number in the entertainment industry, of people that were full
of talent, who had promising careers, but somehow, managed to throw it all away.
We can name here the Lindsey Lohan’s, the Amy Winehouse’s, the Pee-Wee Anderson’s
and many others. These people had a gift, the one that many of us are still
looking for. They were stars and at the peak of success. The question I am asking
is….what happened?
My
theory (even though limited) is that these people relied on their past performance
to justify their current. “Do I need to
work as hard when I was so good there and there?” – “Is it necessary that I give the same effort as I did last time?” These
are probably the reasoning that they gave themselves. I believe they forgot the
one thing that led them to where they were, success is a continuum, not a onetime
effort. With that thinking, other deceitful pleasures came in line (drugs, partying
in excess, addictions and others) for those fallen talents. [Addiction is a
sickness. Its ground lays in you in two ways, either or, physically and
psychologically. Finding what troubles you and working
towards healing will greatly aid your quest.]
“It’s ok! There is
always tomorrow!!” –
I wish that every day I told myself that, my future self appeared and smack the
back of my head and showed me what I could miss. I am pretty sure I would be
much closer to my goal, and have a couple of hundred more hours (and money)
under my belt. Yes we can live a somehow
balance life. I do enjoy a glass of scotch from time to time. I love to spend
time with my girlfriend and have a good laugh with my friends, but these things
should be consumed with caution as they tend to be addictive. In excess, they
are destructive.
So
on this, to name names, over here at the 10000th hour; we are
saddened by the departure of Whitney Houston. We wish all the best to her remaining
family, and hope that future generations of artists will learn from her
greatness, her achievements and her mistakes.
The wish to acquire more is admittedly a very natural and common thing; and when men succeed in this they are always praised rather than condemned. But when they lack the ability to do so and yet want to acquire more at all costs, they deserve condemnation for their mistakes.
Niccolo Machiavelli
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